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CalendarSometimes I think I should only approach our family calendar with an inhaler close at hand.  The patchwork of places to be and times to be there scrawled across 30-odd tiny boxes often illicits a barely-contained panic and touch of hyperventilation.  Especially now that August is here.

August in our family means Marching Band.  And Marching Band means WORK.  Our oldest daughter is in rehearsal every day this week from 8am to 8pm.  She’s only “off” next week because she’ll actually be at church youth camp (along with our other daughters, on various days), but then it’s right back into evening rehearsals, sneak peak show for the parents, and then – GASP! – school (and FOOTBALL SEASON) starts.  Marching Band in Texas is so much more than an extracurricular activity.  It’s an agreement between three parties – your band director, your child, and you – that you consent to having absolutely no life for the next three months.  And beyond, if your team does well.  Or if your band does well and moves on to other competitions later in the year.

In addition to Marching Band, our second daughter is in jr high band and will also begin playing at her jr high’s football games.  Rehearsals for that started this week, too.  Our third daughter will be in jr high choir, and so far I don’t have anything on the calendar for that.  I’m remaining blissfully unaware of any and all obligations for that endeavor, though I’m certain they will avalanche upon me soon enough.

Aside from Marching Band, band, and choir, the girls have church youth meetings during the week, and our older son is a Cub Scout.  I’m the VP for Membership on the elementary school’s PTA Board, with an average of two meetings per month (plus the hours in school that they always seem to shoo at as if it’ll be inconsequential…I know better, though).  I’m also a VP on the jr high band’s Booster Board.  I’m curious to see if that will stick – unfortunately they might need to hobble along without me if I decide my sanity is at stake because of everything else.

I spent two hours “calendaring” last night, and I only got through the month of September.  I could hardly see straight after scribbling so many tiny notes in all those boxes!  October and the proceeding months will just have to wait for my attention.  With as much as I grouse about the loooooong, sloooooow summer days, looking at the next two months on the family calendar makes me want to cling to my jammies and focus on the hum of the A/C, burying myself deep in the denial that my life isn’t about to get very, very crazy.

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  • Lisa

    Wow, you sound super busy! I still have a few years before my son starts with the multitude of activities. Good Luck!

  • http://texanbrownupdates.blogspot.com Katie

    Good luck. I am not there yet but I know my mom can sympathize with you. There were 6 in my family and most of the time she called herself the chauffeur.

  • http://jenlovesfreestuff.blogspot.com Jen

    I feel the same way and my kids aren’t even in activities yet. Paul started school today (getting his MBA) and I pretty much won’t see him at all this week, unless you count the hours between midnight at 6:30am. The boys won’t see him except those early morning hours. Then girls camp next week, then the one week to finish school shopping and kindergarten starts (which I am not ready for!) Throw in a 3 yr old birthday in the middle of that, and my August feels really stressful. I can only imagine how crazy it gets with 5 kids and a husband that travels. Call me to vent!

  • Melissa

    I hear ya! Although I have been in a funk lately and seem ready to shake things up and get another school year started, I know that when I am running around…dropping off and picking up, fitting 20 plus girls in their orchestra dresses, being treasurer for the orchestra booster club, running to 3 or more Primary Sacrament Meeting presentations each Sunday, volunteering at the elementary school… that I will wish we were still having lazy summer days.

    Wow, I’m tired already! Anyone want a pajama day tomorrow?

  • http://www.herewegomoms.com/ Erin @ Closing Time

    I remember how busy I was in high school marching band, so I can relate. The big difference was that I was an only child! I can only imagine how crazy your schedule will be… I know you’ll do a great job!

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